I see too many people swallowed whole by negativity. They can’t understand why nothing is going right in their lives. Why isn’t anything changing? I have no friends. Why can’t I meet a great guy? Why am I unhappy in my relationship? Why-why-why. Why are you always complaining? Why are you having a pity party? Why can’t you see what you have instead on focusing on what you want. Me-me-me. I-I-I. It’s all the ego. When you open your eyes and see how bad most people have it you’d be ashamed at your attitude. That’s what it is. Your attitude.
Attitude– a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior.
Behavior– the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, especially toward others.
We are all battling something in our lives. I want to say that no matter how tough it gets, keep your chin up. I get my strength from The Lord, but I also have a choice. I choose to make the best of each moment and to better myself. Challenging my mind and body. Whenever I get down it’s usually because I’m either sitting on my couch wasting my life away or consumed with work to the point where I have no time to breathe. It’s about balance and above all else it’s about loving yourself.
Most of my life I’ve let people talk down to me, manipulate me and take advantage of the love I have to give. I didn’t know my worth and I wasn’t loving myself. You need to surround your world with beautiful souls that will encourage you, help you grow and give you constructive criticism. People that will draw you nearer to Christ. People that will help you see how beautiful you are without trying. Without all the make-up, stylish clothes, cool social media pictures and all that jazz. It’s easy to get tons of likes when you’re half naked. As a Christian woman in the industry it’s tough finding a balance. I’m not perfect, but The Lord has revealed so much to me and will continue to shape me into the woman He wants me to be.