I find that taking a step back is necessary. Taking a wider picture of the image. An awareness of what needs to be done in order to move forward. There’s no doubt that time heals, but we don’t all have time. Having a long life is not always a reality. Being in the moment is vital. Acknowledging and knowing all the blessings you’re given, daily, is important. It allows us to let go of the unnecessary stress we put on ourselves.
Life is hard, for each and every one of us. We all have our issues. Yet we all think we are alone, that no one understands our pain. The people in your life are there for a reason. You are in your situation because of the choices you’ve made. If you want change you need to make tough decisions and have complete faith that it will be okay. And we need to respect the decisions of others. We are all on a personal journey doing the best we can. We all make mistakes, we are all flawed, but we need to have compassion and love. Try putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. What would you do?